Quote:I would assume that all frets are made with the same metal. Jumbo, medium, whatever.
Actually they are not all made of the same metal (some are nickel-silver, some are stainless steel, I've even heard of titanium), but I would think the Cort factories that Ibanez uses probably all use the same fret wire over most Ibanez guitars.
You say you've had it 9 months. How much do you play? A lot? Do you have a fairly firm grip/touch or a heavy technique? It's not unusual for frets to wear on the top like that, but you definitely should not see shavings that you can create from a single bend.
My frets look like that also, but I have had my guitars for several years now. I don't play as much as I used to but it was never a *whole* lot. I see the sparkles you mention around the frets, but is that 9 month's worth of wearing down or have you cleaned the guitar since you got it and those are mostly from fresh bends?
To be honest your frets don't really look *that* bad. They look "bad" from the top, but all frets will flatten off at the top like that over time where the strings meet them, and the flatness is generally not very deep at all. Look down the length of the fret from the side of the neck and see how deep the wear is. You may want to try using some fine or extra fine steel wool on the frets to polish off the natural corrosion on the sides of the frets so the whole fret is shiny. You might then take another look and think it's not so bad, just that the shinyness and apparent flatness looking at it from the top is unsettling (yet normal on most guitars).